Random Love Stuff

Is there such a thing as a love that doesn’t go away?
A love that endures through heartache, pain, disappointment, distance, and life changes?
Is it possible to really love someone forever?
Why are there some people who can send us into an emotional frenzy without even trying?
Should you fall in love with your heart or your head?
What do you do when the person who makes your heart jump, flutter, stop and start again doesn’t love you back? Or doesn’t love you the way you love them?
Do you choose the one you love or the one who is good for you?
And why are they never the same person?
Why is it so hard to find compatibility and passion?
Why can’t you have both?
Why most you always choose?
Love shouldn’t have to be a compromise from the very beginning, right?

There are two ways to look at it. On one side you could say it’s better to be really in love, and passionate about one another. Not just passion when it comes to sex, but someone who gets you excited about life. That foundation will keep you grounded through hard times. The deeper your love for one another the stronger the relationship will be. You will fight harder to make it work.
On the other side, some say it’s more important to be compatible. Shared values, shared goals. Mutual respect and friendship are best because they are more rational. As the years go by this type of relationship is more likely to survive because it doesn’t rely so much on emotions. It may not be as passionate, but it’s comfortable, probably healthier in the long run.

The point I’m trying to make it WHY DO I HAVE TO CHOOSE???!!! Why can’t it all come in the same package? I don’t know, maybe as I get older I’ll begin to lean more to the latter, but if I had to choose today, I would opt for passion. I want the one who gets me all twisted up. The one who knows how to handle me, how to push my buttons and get my attention. I want the butterflies.

I don’t have any conclusions. This is just some stuff I was thinking.

That is all.